We’ve normalized botox and fillers for both men and women. We’ve normalized extensions and emojis in emails. We’ve redefined what it means to be “professional” and “strong” and “beautiful.” We’ve taken control of our narratives; let’s take control of our health and pleasure as well. It’s not difficult to do, and it doesn’t have to be taboo. Let’s talk orgasms, incontinence, and the O Shot.